Is my partner affectionate to the degree that I expect?- It seems this is one of the important questions that couples need to ask before getting married. Fair enough. Every human being’s basic need is to be loved and to expect affection from your partner is normal. But the degree is the main question here. I mean the degree varies from situation to situation. On normal days a person mite not expect anything other than the usual conversation. But on days wen he/she is low, he/she does expect something more than the usual. Its fine if the other person understands this and loads him/her with more than the usual share of love. When you are feeling low, even the tiny comments put you down, small fights seem to indicate the end of the relationship. To judge your partner’s mood and emotional needs is one of the most important tests you face in a relationship. I guess communication is the key yet again!
Chamathu, anyone?
I never stick to my words. So here it goes: The Tamilian people can be classified into different categories. This classification is based on their character, virtues, educational qualification, skin colour, length of hair, size of nose...ok you now get the drift. I am only going to talk about one category at a time. Today is the one which people are scared of falling into, it is called the 'Chamathu' category. As you age, you might like being classified as 'Chamathu', but as a kid, it is a dreaded category. Ok now let me explain what 'Chamathu' is. Lets start with the guy, because I am a woman and would love to give the first chance to men :p A Chamathu guy is one who oils his hair regularly, recites his slokas at appropriate points of time during the day, makes earnest conversations with 80 year old thathas who spit more than they talk, goes to the temple regularly [Note: going to the temple everyday would make him a 'pazham*'], does not talk to girls u
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Calculus is not as complicated. :-S
da rodent- exactly..Also the sense of humor of a guy is very different frm that of a girl.
Actually dont get what I m trying to say finally :) So will leave it here...
yezhudhinadhe oru generalization he/she nu pottu ... idhule doubt veera keekanuma? :p ... u might hav as well left it as a she ... coz mostly it is so :)
"relationship" is a BIG word ... the biggest word ever :D
** To judge your partner’s mood and emotional needs is one of the most important tests you face in a relationship
but is it worse than judging what a guy commin on the road in the opposite direction wud do ;) ... he he
** I guess communication is the key yet again!
communication illai ... chemistry ;)
am still wondering as to what made arpi write this post :p
rltnshp- the biggest word ever??????? I had no idea abt that!
And u dfntly wld require communication to emote ur chemistry rite?
Wat made me write this post- hmmm the obvious reasons:)